Facebook Account Deactivation - Can It Be Avoided?
I just got off the phone with yet another Facebook friend who had his account deactivated by Facebook with no warning. In the past ten days or so, several more people in my community contacted me asking if I knew how to get their Facebook accounts reactivated. (I typically always send people to this post. [UPDATE December 30, 2009: no longer exists or has been moved; try this post now].)
Of all the social networks, Facebook certainly appears to have the most rigorous Terms of Use - certainly when it comes to enforcing those terms. Facebook has all kinds of complex algorithms and ‘bots set up to trawl the platform. On the one hand, I especially appreciate Facebook because of these tight Terms of Use:
- You can only have one (personal) Account and it has to be in your real name.
- There are no fake or duplicate accounts allowed.
- You can’t have a (personal) account in the name of a business. Fortunately you can set up Facebook Pages to represent your business on Facebook.
Because of these particular terms, we can pretty much rest assured that in say, 95% of cases, when you’re friending and interacting with someone on Facebook - it really is that person.
But, on the other hand, Facebook’s tight terms often flag perfectly legit accounts and, unfortunately, terminate those profiles - frequently with no warning at all.
I compare this to having your spam filters on your regular email too high where you end up inadvertently directing a bunch of bona fide email to your junk folder. It seems Facebook’s filters are a tad too tight!
Here are some possible reasons your account may be deactivated:
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- You send “too many” friend requests in one day/session.
- You make “too many” wall posts in one day/session - especially with verbatim content and with links.
- You copy and paste the same friend request message “too many” times.
- You send too many identical emails to individual friends and/or friend lists*.
- You message your Group members “too many” times.
- You message your Event invitees “too many” times.
Are you noticing a theme here?! Yes, it’s all about limitations … BUT, Facebook have not published these types of limitations anywhere! The one exception which is in the Terms of Use is that you can’t join more than 200 Groups.
Along with going over the “too many” limitations, here are another couple of possible reasons your account could be deactivated:
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- You’ve reached the 5,000 friend limitation and your pending friend requests are building up beyond a certain point. This happened just recently to a popular internet marketer and she was forced to start all over again. (If you’re in this situation, be sure to keep your requests managed. I came up with this solution: ConnectWithMari.com).
- Facebook suspects you of impersonating someone else. This happened to Virtual Assistant, Erin Blaskie, and it was absolutely not true. Erin ended up seeing the lighter side of the situation and made a fun video for YouTube: I Was Banned From Facebook - Game Show Parody
It’s possible you won’t have your account deactivated for the above reasons, but you may find yourself being blocked from certain specific activities, e.g. you may be temporarily blocked from messaging your Event invitees and/or writing on your friends’ Walls.
Recommended action steps
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Take your time to build up a strategic network of friends on Facebook.
Focus on quality, not quantity. Your social circle will grow naturally over time anyway. Think of it this way: there are currently 125 million active members on Facebook (predicted to be 500 million by 2011) and you can “only” be friends with 5,000 of those members!
- Send no more than approximately 20 new friend requests at any one time.
This number may be very conservative. Also, be sure to mix up the friend request messages.
- Use your own opt-in email system.
When using the Facebook Events app, be sure to have your friends opt-in to your own email list so you can broadcast the dial-in information from your own systems. - Build out your Facebook Page.
I’ve yet to hear of a Page being deactivated - Pages get indexed and help with your and Facebook’s search engine ranking.
- Include Facebook in your overall marketing strategy.
You may also be using blogging, article marketing, press releases, teleseminars, webinars, radio interviews, your own BlogTalkRadio show, HubPages, Squidoo lenses, TV interviews, Google Adwords, live seminars, sample consultations, and much, much more.
- Don’t put all your social networking “eggs” in one basket.
Build up a following on Twitter. And, use FriendFeed, Plaxo, LinkedIn, etc.
- Remember there was life before Facebook.
And there would be life after Facebook if ever anything happened to the platform or company. I believe they are a giant and are here to stay, however, it’s important to put their power in perspective.
Here’s a thought for Facebook’s monetization plan:
Would you pay for a more unrestricted Facebook account? For the ability to add unlimited friends? And create Groups of unlimited size? Facebook have given themselves three years to come up with a lucrative revenue model. I appreciate implementing paid levels vs. free levels of membership has all kinds of programming implications. But I’ll bet a certain percentage of members would go for the unrestricted paid access in a heartbeat. I’d pay $10-$30/month - how about you?
[Psst - you heard it here first: stay tuned for an incredible new social network + membership site + ecommerce platform launching in early 2009!!] [I ended up not using this system so can't vouch for it.]
Related posts/resources:
13 Reasons your Facebook account will be disabled [seems to be missing now]
How should Facebook change its account disabling policy?
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27 Responses to “Facebook Account Deactivation - Can It Be Avoided?”
Joey Lowe
December 23rd, 2008
Hi Mari, very interesting as I recently heard of a friend’s account being deactivated, and I didn’t understand why that would happen. Thanks for the run down! ![]()
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JoLynn Braley | The Fit Shack
December 23rd, 2008
I personally would not pay for Facebook, considering I’ve not seen much of a benefit from it, certainly nothing that would cover the cost.
It’s a shame they have such vague rules- if you can only make so many friend requests, why not just program the site to only allow that many? It’s like driving on a highway with no speed limit signs.
Chris Lockwood
December 23rd, 2008
Excellent post, Mari, and thank you for providing some guidelines.
Carolann Jacobs
December 23rd, 2008
Mari Mari Mari - you NEVER disappoint! This is so useful with all the links to deeper info and all. I’ve been concerned about this draconian type deactivation.
I love your thoroughness. Really I do. ![]()
You are a blessing in my online life. Hope to meet up one day!
♥
Julette Millien
December 23rd, 2008
Wow, Thanks again Mari!
Now I realize that I might have been skating close to the edge on a few of these issues (same message mostly).
A wealth of useful info!
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Jim Hickey
December 23rd, 2008
If you send a message to disabled@facebook.com telling them you were disabled and would like your account back. They typically let you get it back.
Scott Bradley
December 23rd, 2008
Very nice post Mari! I have actually had my accound disabled because I was befriending too many people. Luckily for me, I it was turned on after three days. Ever since then, I have trying to brand myself outside of FB with my own personal blog.
Amaete Umanah
December 23rd, 2008
Wonderful wonderful information….thank you Mari…you are the go to person particulary for FaceBook….and much more…always ready to help when asked.
You have made a difference for me….frankly you’ve made FB more fun and enjoyable..(shhhhh I didn’t really like it much)
Thank you dear lady…great Holiday present for all.
Apothecary Jeri
December 23rd, 2008
I really like your action steps.
Two questions:
1. how important is it to be consistently active vs. spotty/bursty among your overall social networking tools? (are interaction routines important? … I’m a fan of decoupling time)
2. how easy is it to undo any damage you do from all the noob mistakes when learning?
Scenario - let’s say I join twitter. Let’s say I do nothing. Then a month from now I’m hog wild for a week. Then I hibernate for two. Does it matter? Or is it the type of thing where to be effective you need daily results?
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J.D. Meier
December 23rd, 2008
Great article as usual and thanks for sharing…Cheers, Judi
Judi Finneran
December 23rd, 2008
This is great information, Mari!
I just purposefully deactivated my old facebook account because it actually got me in more trouble than anything else. Then a new friend of mine said…’why would you do that when you’re in the internet marketing game?’
Well he convinced me as to how it can help brand myself and my business. Next thing I know I came across this blog that is inspiring new ideas for my business marketing strategy.
Thank You Mari it is much appreciated the work you do!
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Rasheed
December 25th, 2008
Great post! Personally, I had to go “under cover” on Facebook because random people started to spam me and my wall. However, I’ve also used Facebook to promote web sites, and it can really do magic to both the number of visitors and to the google ranking, if it’s used the right way.
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Manfred Ekblad
December 27th, 2008
Thanks for sharing because this is very helpful. Will make note of this information and pass it on to others.
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Kim Beasley
December 30th, 2008
As always Mari, great content. Thanks for the heads up and the generosity. I’d heard a fairly big playing in the SM world having his FB profile shut-down because his Tweets were feeding into his FB Status TOO MUCH! Any word on that?
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Lissa Boles
January 2nd, 2009
Thanks for these tips. I am using facebook a lot now and have made some great contacts on there. One time, I was posting in several groups and got a warning message pop up from facebook about possibly spamming and that my account could be deleted. I do know of some who have been deleted without warning and some who have impersonated celebrities and have been deleted. Like any social site, facebook can be your best friend or worst enemy. Its all in how you use the site.
Elizabeth Bennett
January 13th, 2009
great post, very good to know…
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January 23rd, 2009
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February 3rd, 2009
Hi Mari,
Thanks for listing the ways to avoid deactivation. I will definitely pass your blog post along to my friends, colleagues and clients. Yes, I would pay for Facebook premium should they provide it.
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Michelle
February 8th, 2009
My account was disabled, as it was deemed to be a gaming account.
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March 17th, 2009
hello
my account is desabled and i need your help f i can enable it cause all my old school friends are there and i wana know daily how many friends can we add??
please let me know thx dear
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April 3rd, 2009
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July 5th, 2009
Hi Mari, Suzi Pomerantz sent me in your direction. Not sure why I was bounced off because I’ve done none of the listed offenses since I was traveling for 3 weeks. The question of the moment is how do I reactivate. There is no email listed that I can send a request to, no phone number, no powers that be to appeal to. Help.
Minx Boren
August 16th, 2009
Mine was deactivated because I mistakenly tried to share a pic from my son’s album. It didn’t work, so I kept trying, and the spambot thought I was a spammer. I very politely wrote them a letter explaining the situation and I was reactivated. Of course, it probably didn’t hurt that about 100 of my friends wrote in protest as well!
Deborah Aldridge
September 14th, 2009
Mari, this is great advice! I sure wish I’d read this a while back! This would have prevented me from being disabled. Unfortunately, now both my main account and my public page have disabled. Boo hoo! See my story and findings (w/ a link to your posts): http://www.sugarshockblog.com/2009/11/too-friendly-for-facebook-my-accounts-are-disabled-1.html
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Good advice! Never knew FB was so restrictive and I certainly wasn’t aware about the 5000 friend limit. That’s alot but maybe not enough.